Well Isn't that Special?

Fashion or Respect?

2010-08-16T12:06:00.006-04:00

Ok, so I've never really thought of myself as old school. Yes, I'm getting older, and there are plenty of things that the younger generation is into that I totally do not understand.
But I know the same was true when I was a teenager and in my 20's. So I try to be pretty open minded.
But there are a few things that many consider "old school" that I think are non-negotiables when it comes to etiquette and respect. For example:

Saying "Yes/No Ma'am" & Yes/No Sir"
Saying "Please" & "Thank You"
Standing & placing one's hand over their heart during the Pledge of Allegiance & the National Anthem
Removing one's hat during the Pledge of Allegiance & the National Anthem.

Now, some of you may think these are old fashioned or Southern traditions. I could agree that saying Yes/No Ma'am might be considered a Southern thing. But the other things are simple respect issues.

Let me tell you what has brought this on. My family attends a wonderful church that has a "traditional" worship service with organ & hymns and a more "contemporary" service that has a worship band. They are very talented, great music. Here's where I go crazy. The members of the band are so ridiculously stylish. They walk around campus like they're the Beatles. It drives me nuts. But I've gradually gotten past that, it's not about me, it's not about them, I'm closing my eyes & worshiping. Right? Ok.
The stylish part? Yeah, these hats that you may have seen guys wearing these days, they look like train engineer hats to me. I think they're ugly, but what do I know, right? My issue is not the hats, you can dress like a purple dinosaur if you want. My issue is the fact that they wear them while they are on the stage singing, worshiping & praying. They never take them off.
Is it just me, or is that disrespectful? I think it is.

Now, let me be clear about this; I don't mean people should only be dressed a certain way in order to walk through the doors of a church. That's what it's all about either. I mean, for example, if a teenage boy walks into church with a hat on, no one needs to embarrass him by telling him to take off his hat. That actually happened to someone I know when they were a kid & was detrimental to their attitude toward church as an adolescent.
But I do think that people in church leadership should be just that. Leaders. In how they act, what they do & what they say. That means not doing anything that could be a distraction or a stumbling block.

Anyway, it's not a deal breaker. I like our church. DH likes our church. Our kids love our church. And I think all our church leaders are incredible people. I certainly don't think that the worship band guys are not good people just because they wear dumb hats onstage. I've just personally found it to be quite distracting. Worship is about God. Not the look, not the style, not even the music.

So I guess I really am "old school." But it's not about jeans. It's not about t-shirts. It's not about tattoos. It's not about pearls & heels. It's not about suits & ties. It's about simple respect. It's a given that when you're at a baseball game, a car race, or an air show, the hats come off during the pledge & anthem. Shouldn't we show God the same respect??

Nanny McPhee Contest

2010-08-10T22:32:00.001-04:00

Nanny McPhee is back! Go visit this blog for your chance to win Nanny McPhee gear!

Safety in the Sun

2010-07-27T16:57:00.004-04:00

Safety first when heading out to the pool. The Flying Monkey suggests you put sunscreen everywhere the sun may shine. Even your armpits.

A Bright Future

2010-07-22T16:54:00.000-04:00

Yes, I remember I have 3 children. That youngest one just seems to do all the funny camera-worthy things. He's going to make people laugh for a living one day, this I know for sure.

Overheard at Dinner

2010-07-01T16:51:00.000-04:00

Overheard at dinner.
The Flying Monkey: Look! This is how I make my black things bigger.

(his pupils)

Smart?

2010-06-29T16:45:00.000-04:00

Is this really a "smart" car? I just wonder about a car that is the size of a golf cart, how safe can that be? Then I saw this the other day. Pretty funny.
(And yes I was driving, I just clicked a picture, we had just started at the traffic light)

It's Summer....

2010-06-27T16:41:00.000-04:00

It's been a while since I've posted. I have a lot to catch up on. Please take a moment, sit down & enjoy while you wait....

How a Bill Bcomes a Law

2010-03-23T13:02:00.002-04:00

Watch and Enjoy. Schoolhouse Rock should be required viewing for all US citizens. And it's just fun.

How a Bill Becomes a Law

Health Care Reform?

2010-03-23T10:57:00.005-04:00

I thought long & hard about whether to post on this issue, simply because I'm not a political blogger, nor do I want to become one. But this bill is going to affect our country for years to come.

I have been faced with the hardship of having no insurance, having to find private insurance, fighting with the insurance company for payment, the list goes on and on. I am in agreement that health care reform is needed. I do not agree that this is the way to do it.

Before you stop reading, let me finish. One of the things that has been bothering me about the whole debate is the anger & name calling. It is a passionate issue & it is bringing out the best & the worst of people. Understandably. I want to try to explain how I feel about it & why, but I want to try to do it in a calm, rational, non-judgemental manner that everyone can understand. Maybe not agree with, but listen. I have listened to the other side of the argument, & like I said, I agree we need reform. And I'm actually a little bit put off that none of the Republican leaders tried harder to find another solution or explain why it might not be the best plan with less... yelling.
Here is the other thing. I am a patriot. I support the office of the President, & I support my President. The President of the United States is MY President. I may not have voted for him, but he is my President. I do NOT have to support everything he says, does or promotes. Blindy following someone without educating oneself on the issues is as bad as blindly opposing the person without listening to the issues.
But I will wish the President success, because I want my country to be the best it can be, not only for me now, but my children & grandchildren.

Our founding fathers came to America to get away from oppression from the government. A government who told them how to live, what to say, how to worship, excessive taxes, and none of these things promoted a healthy & happy life for the people. America was founded with the idea that less government control makes for a healthy & free life. All of this is detailed in the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution of the United States.

I've read both of those documents recently. Yes, I have. I'm not going to even try to explain or interpret anything in them. The language is centuries old & I'm not a history scholar. I know what I learned in school. I just wanted to read them because I personally think all adults should re-read them from time to time, lest we forget.
One thing I do think is that it is not a good thing for the federal government to be in control of too many things in our country. We are on our way to something we might not be prepared for.

Back to health care. Reform is needed. I had to pay out of pocket for a medically necessary mammogram when I was 36. My physician wrote an order for it. I had a lump. My insurance (a group plan) wouldn't pay for it because I wasn't 40. Huh? Things like that are unacceptable.
But requiring people to buy insurance... the federal government will require you to buy insurance. Is that right? Better yet, is that constitutional? Can the government mandate that you buy a service? Sure, they require we purchase auto insurance, but they don't require we purchase a car. I feel that when we allow the government to start telling what to buy & how much to buy, we are approaching a slippery slope. Where does it stop? We just have to be careful.

The other thing I think I can confidently say most people who have a problem with this bill are concerned with is how the health care is going to be paid for. My problem is that with the economy the way it is now, most people are having trouble not only paying for their own insurance, but just putting food on the table. *I heard Joe Biden say yesterday that he understood how people are feeling now, people are sitting at the breakfast table wondering "how they are going to keep their kids in school." Um, Mr. Vice President. I understand your children have never darkened the doors of a public school, but most of America is not worrying about how to pay for "free" public school. Food, clothes, & electricity are what we're concerned with.*

So, to pay for the health care of a few million people who don't have it for one reason or another, the government is going to take even more money out of our paychecks. Money that pays for milk & bread for our children. I don't mind helping people, I DO help people, I feel it's all a part of the Golden Rule, treating others the way I want to be treated, but I do mind the government telling me that I HAVE to & how much & when I have to do it. How resentful will I feel when I can't get my own children something basic & needed because our hard earned money was taken to pay for someone else's health insurance. How do I explain that injustice to my child?

Then there are the small businesses. Actually, let's not even go there. Let's just talk about businesses, companies in general. A company's biggest expense is now going to be the employee that needs a health care plan for their family. Spouse & multiple children. Are they going to keep that employee on the payroll or let them go? I hope they keep them. Government control of a business. See where we're going?

It's the TAKING that is the problem. The government TAKING.

I'm giving worst case scenarios. Or am I? It takes looking at the whole picture, not just saying let's fix it and then giving a pat on the back because we've "fixed" the problem that previous administration allegedly started.

Do I have another solution? I don't. But I'll be thinking.

If we can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people, under the pretense of taking care of them, they must become happy. - Thomas Jefferson

The Best Mom Ever

2010-03-18T17:23:00.003-04:00

Or so I'm told...

Mind Your Own Business

2010-03-17T12:41:00.003-04:00

Mind your own business? What? Where's the fun in that? I've never really been one to mind my own business, but I know how annoying it is when nosy people try to mind MY business.
I have an 11 year old son (Number One Son) & he is pushing the limits of acceptable behavior. He is getting in trouble for the dumbest things. Common sense things. All a part of the "growing up" angst he is going through, according to his principal.
His friends are doing it too, so he's in good company. Three of his buddies got in trouble this week for fighting. Two of the three were suspended. Now these boys are very kind hearted boys. They're "stinky boys," as Queenie says, but they are good boys. No bullies here. Number One Son wouldn't be friends with bullies, because he knows what it feels like to be bullied.
There is a neighborhood mom who saw a bit of the playground fight & is now, get this, spreading rumors about the boys & the fight. Really? Spreading rumors about children?
She is telling people that these boys are bullies & she even went so far as to send a scathing email to the moms of the two boys in trouble regarding their boys & their parenting.
Ok, you know, I understand, especially if her child was involved in the fight as well. What? Her child was not involved, you say? What? Oh, she has a daughter who was nowhere near the fight? What? Her daughter is not even in their class? Oh...
I'm sorry, I don't understand when people started thinking they had the right to nose into things that have nothing to do with them. And to insult a mother over something she knows nothing about, come on, moms. We have to stick together, first of all.
Secondly, gossiping about children. That's pretty immature & not setting a very good example.

Food Fight!!!

2010-03-15T10:45:00.004-04:00

I have found myself in a place I didn't want to be. Not a terrible thing, I just feel very unqualified. I am in charge of the spring fundraiser at my children's elementary school. We are having a carnival with games & a silent auction as well.
We have decided to have a specific activity at the carnival for fundraising purposes that should prove to be very popular. An organized food fight. I'm excited about it, I think it will be a lot of fun. We have the location secured, but here is the question of the week:
In an environment like we find ourselves in these days, what kind of items are appropriate for a "food fight?" Expired food items? "Faux" food items?
We want to have fun, raise funds for our school, but we don't want to be wasteful or provide an example of wastefulness.
Any ideas, gentle readers?

Happy Birthday Dr. Seuss!

2010-03-02T19:20:00.004-05:00

Happy Birthday Theodor Seuss Geisel, aka Dr. Seuss.

We had Green Eggs & Ham in honor of Dr. Seuss' birthday! The kids loved it.

I leave you with a couple of my favorite "Seussisms."

Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.

Be Who You Are and Say What You Feel Because Those Who Mind Don't Matter and Those Who Matter Don't Mind.

When Everyone's Super, No One Is...

2010-02-24T16:41:00.009-05:00

So I've decided to drop back into the blogosphere with a bang. I'll catch you up a little bit on who I am, first of all...

I am a wife & a mother of three. I used to be the boss at my job, now I'm underemployed. I say "under" because I found a part time job after I was laid off from my bossy job. I am now a substitute teacher. So, I guess I am now the "Faux" Boss Lady.

Anyway, I kind of had an epiphany of sorts recently. Not really an epiphany, because God didn't audibly speak to me, but it was a definite light bulb moment.

I am a perfectionist. I didn't realize how much though until recently. Apparently I think I have to be Super Mom.

I've never liked Super Moms. I've always thought they were overachievers who need attention.

Well. Apparently I am and I do.

I had a friend inform me this week that she didn't understand why I didn't feel I could open up to her about things. I was talking to her about some things going on in my life and suddenly she turned it all around started telling me that she didn't understand why I didn't think she was a good friend and she would've thought I thought more of her after all these years. Please read the previous as exactly the way I've written it. That is not what she said. She didn't turn it all around and make it about me hurting her. That is only what I heard. Read on.

Now I've never been an open book. I actually spent the first 10 years of my married life trying very hard to be a closed book. DH was a minister and living in a fish bowl is never a fun thing. The more you open up about yourself and your life, the more people can use those things to hurt you. Sad thing to learn about in life, isn't it?

But the thing I've learned the past 5 years is that if you don't trust enough to open up, there are so many things you miss out on. Taking a chance and taking a leap is what makes life exciting!!!

But I'm still not a wide open book. And I learned the past few months or so that my plate is much smaller than I thought it was. I've been very overwhelmed by life. DH and I both have. He has taken it all in stride. It's the season of life we're in, this won't last forever. Of course God comes first in our family and our marriage, but by doing that, we also put our family and our marriage before other things.

Our children are getting older and they have activities that are essential for their growth, education and development (physical and spiritual). These activities along with life, jobs and day to day things just happen have us completely overwhelmed. DH says, no biggie, it is what it is right now.

I feel embarrassed that I feel overwhelmed. I feel like I don't want anyone, I mean ANYONE, to know that I can't do it all. I feel like a failure as a mother, as a wife and as a... dare I say it... Super Mom. I'm not a Super Mom. I'm a human mom. And my pride kept me from opening up about how I felt overwhelmed by life. And my friend got offended that I didn't feel I could share it with her. I probably would've gotten offended too. But as I sat and grew more and more indignant at why she would dare hurt my feelings over something I felt was so petty, I got to thinking and I began to pray about why exactly I do not open up about seemingly small things. And here we are.

Now, we all see (hopefully) that it had nothing to do with her. Good grief, this is obviously my issue. I've had so many people compliment my mothering skills, I guess I just became afraid to let them in on the secret. I'm winging it folks. But I am still a great mom, who is going to have to learn how to tell people no and tell people I am overwhelmed and not super. Especially family and friends.

So. Here goes.

My name is Boss Lady. I am a Human Mom. I can't do everything. I can only do what is best for my family and for myself. And sometimes that means saying "No." Sometimes that means not being able to successfully complete everything.

I definitely means modeling encouraging behavior to my children that tells them, "Yes, I am human. But I can try. And if I don't succeed the first time, or if I don't succeed at all, I am still a wonderful wife, a wonderful mom and a wonderful person. Who loves her family and her friends."

How's that for open book?

Thoughtful Tuesday

2009-11-10T08:32:00.003-05:00

I'm starting something new today. Thoughtful Tuesdays are what I came up with. I will basically issue a deep thought, something wise, thought provoking or just a vent. I don't want this to become a venting, ranting outlet for me. I want it to be more. But I do have things on my mind.

Let's start small this week.

Here's something to think about.

Many of live our lives with experiences that no one else has. It's what makes life so exciting. If you have not specifically experienced the same thing as someone else, don't you dare judge or criticize someone for how they deal with those experiences. It's snotty, rude & let me tell you something. What goes around comes around.

She'll Be Coming Round the Mountain

2009-11-09T09:58:00.005-05:00

So we had a great family weekend trip. We went to the mountains with Mr. Boss Lady's family. It was for his mom's birthday & it was nice. But sometimes family trips are just a pain in the tush.

I love DH's family, I do. My sister in law, Marvelous Marie, is one of my best friends, and our children have the best time playing with the cousins. Wonderful memories were sincerely made this weekend.

Sure, there was a little drama, there always is. And I'll admit, I created some of it. But we had a good time. We had a great time with cousins, brothers, sisters, & grandparents! And that is the truth. DH took our children & Tater, our

nephew, on a hike on Saturday I love how much fun they had and how they were talking about it when they returned. Great memories.

Then Marvelous Marie & I took a mini shopping trip into town & a had a great time reconnecting (life is busy you know). We all had a good time playing games & being silly too.

These kind of trips are good for families to do occasionally with each other.

I hope you all have a great week!

Wordless Wednesday

2009-06-24T23:53:00.001-04:00

We love Mamaw!

Anyone Out There?

2009-05-19T16:11:00.002-04:00

I have been gone for so long, many of the bloggers I followed are no longer around. That leads me to believe that many of my gentle readers are no longer around either!

So, please drop me a comment if you're still around!!

What's Important?

2009-05-19T15:51:00.007-04:00

I am a wife & a mother. I love my husband & I love my children so much it hurts sometimes.
It's the end of the school year & I'm hurting for them right now. Thinking about how they are growing up before my eyes just makes me want to smile from ear to ear & cry a river at the same time!
So many things are going on in our lives right now, but I love it. What I don't love is how hard it seems to keep friends when one is a "grown up."
I have some wonderful friends, great people to count on & hang out with. Some of these are friends are such comfortable friends. What I mean is, it's like we never lose touch. Even if it's been months since we've talked, we pick right up like we never left. Perfect.
Sometimes it just doesn't seem so easy. I'm not sure why. I have 3 kids. One "tween," one adolescent princess & a 5 year old. 'Nuff Said. And as I am currently unemployed, I am job hunting. So, we're on a budget. Not being able to go out & socialize all the time should not be a deal breaker in the friend game. I've never faced this before, it's a new thing for me.
At this stage in my life, I need friends who make me feel good about myself, my family & my life. At 37 having a friend shouldn't be that hard.
Don't get me wrong, I know all my friends are great people, maybe I'm just feeling melancholy today.
My good friend Dr. Seuss reminds me often to "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."

Overheard on Spring Break

2009-04-17T15:13:00.002-04:00

We took a great family trip to see the great grandparents over Spring Break. Tight quarters in the car to and from made for fun, fun comments!! And these are just the ones I wrote down....

(While getting ready to go to Kennedy Space Center)
Grandmother: What are you going to do today?
The Flying Monkey: We're going to space!

(While hearing about "growing pizza plants")
TFM: Pizza's not a veggie-ble.

(While trying to watch a movie)
Queenie: I can't hear!!!!
Number One Son: Queenie, Shut It and you'll be able to hear!!!

(Riding in the car.... and riding... and riding.)
Queenie & TFM: (bicker, argue...)
NOS: Guys...
Q & TFM: (bicker, argue...)
NOS: Guys....
Q & TFM: (bicker, argue...)
NOS: Guys!! Rock, paper, scissors, already!!!

Who's the Boss?

2009-03-03T14:01:00.003-05:00

Hello Gentle Readers. Is anyone there? Anyone? Bueller? Bueller?
Yes, I know it's been awhile. But I'm back!

I am officially not the boss at my place of employment any longer. Victim of the economy, who knows, they just did not need my services anymore. That's about what I got for an explanation.

But if you read this blog at all, you know I was not really happy there. I just would have liked to have had a job waiting for me when that one ended. And, selfishly speaking, I would have liked for it to have been my choice. But, c'est la vie!
So..... I am going to try to blog more often now! In between job hunting, that is!

I hope you all have a great week and if you're suffering from downsizing like the Boss Lady is, hang in there!

Letter to Santa

2008-12-24T10:03:00.002-05:00

I hope you all have a very Merry Christmas and that you get everything you could hope for this season. Christmas is very special in the Boss Lady household and even though times have been tough for us the past few months, we definitely count our blessings and are thrilled to be as blessed as we are.
We are celebrating the true reason for the season this year and we are excited to celebrate Jesus' Birth.

Here is the sweet letter that Number One Son is leaving for Santa Claus by the cookies tonight.

Dear Santa,
How do you feel after the Christmas run? I think you feel fine.
I think I'll love the toys that you will give me.
Your best friend,
Number One Son

Short, sweet, to the point, and... sweet.

Have a Sweet and Merry Christmas.

Overheard under the Christmas Tree

2008-12-14T15:38:00.004-05:00

Overheard at home while pondering what to get Daddy / DH for Christmas:

Boss Lady: What do you guys think your dad wants for Christmas?
Number One Son: More firewood?
Queenie: A new baby girl!

Vacation Over

2008-12-14T15:30:00.000-05:00

So, thank you for being patient with me while I took a much needed break from all things bloggy. I don't think that's a word.

I am back and I hope well rested enough to be more Bossy than ever!!!!

Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas!!!

Overheard at Preschool - It's my birthday!

2008-09-04T22:49:00.004-04:00

My birthday was yesterday! Happy birthday to me!!! In honor my bossy birthday, here is a special Birthday Edition of "Overheard at." Happy days to all of you, my gentle readers!

Cute 3 year old: Look Mommy! (proudly showing off the "snack basket")
Preschool Mom: What is this basket for?
CTYO: Me!
PM: You get to bring a birthday treat for your class!
CTYO: Yeah!
Boss Lady: So, are you going to bring in a basket full of rocks??
CTYO: No! *giggles*
PM: What special birthday treat are you going to put in that basket?
CTYO: BEER!!!

Overheard at Kindergarten

2008-08-28T22:23:00.003-04:00

My friend was telling me about her brand new Kindergarten student son's wish for her to stop sending PB&J sandwiches in his lunchbox so he could use his lunch card in the cafeteria line at school.

Butterbean: Don't pack my lunch.
JW: But why, you love PB&J?
Butterbean: Yeah, mom, but I have a card.
JW: What?
Butterbean: I get to use my card at the food court.

Olympic Moments

2008-08-24T23:24:00.008-04:00

I so enjoyed getting to watch the 2008 Summer Olympics in Beijing. I enjoyed watching them with my children. There were so many wonderful moments, but I wanted to share a few of my choices for memorable (and not so memorable) moments. Moments we could share and talk about and learn from.

Good Sportsmanship - Dara Torres just embraced the spirit of the Olympic games when she pleaded with officials to delay the start of a race so a competitor could change suits when hers tore. Oh yeah, Moms Rock.

Most Appreciated - Hugh McCutcheon's father in law was brutally murdered and his mother in law seriously injured in Beijing before the games even started. He had to leave his team to be with his wife and family. When the men's volleyball team won the gold he was so overcome with emotion that he had to leave the court to have a moment. What a way to end the games, a high note during a tragic 2 weeks.
Poor Sportsmanship - There was that dude from Cuba - who I will not give blog time to by mentioning his name - who pitched a hissy fit when he lost his match. So in retaliation he kicked the referee. Get over yourself. You're not cool. Now you can't compete anywhere.

Usain Bolt. Now, he's an amazing athlete, but pounding your chest and pointing at other runners with the bowed up stance seems braggy and uncalled for. Good athlete, but bad example for our youth.
Most Determined - Michael Phelps. Wow. He was a great one to talk to my children about. We knew it would be fun to watch every time he swam. And the kids loved it. "Go Michael, Go Michael!" He was a great athlete to watch and chat about with the kids. Try your best in whatever you do. No matter what. Be determined to always do your best in everything. Again, wow.
Most Entertaining - So it hard to decide which was more entertaining, swimming or gymnastics. Or all the events. But who couldn't watch the gymnasts and just smile. I predict a new American Girl doll for 2009. Shawn Johnson. I called it. August 24, 2008. Just wait and see.The Greatest Athlete in the World - I just really liked Bryan Clay. He made me smile.

There were so many moments and images that I loved, I couldn't possibly tell you about them all here. The men's gymnastics for instance, those guys were alternates and won the silver! I just love the olympics and I am counting the days until we get to watch them again!!!

Sisterhood of the Traveling Sisterhood

2008-08-19T15:16:00.003-04:00

You may recall that DH's sister Peanut recently graduated from high school. She left last week for college. My in-laws finally have an empty nest for the first time in 38 years. Can you believe it? Pretty unbelievable. Another post for another day.

Anyway, in case I've not mentioned it before, I'm a sorority girl. Not just in college, I now volunteer on a national level with the organization. It's pretty cool, I have business cards and everything. DH says he is proud yet mocks me at the same time. But I don't care. ;)

So not only did Peanut go to my Alma mater, she decided she was going to go through sorority recruitment as well. I was so excited, I wrote her a recommendation and I just daydreamed about us having a sisterly bond and secrets for life. Like we don't already, but just bear with me.

Long story short, when the fun was over, she had chosen another sorority on campus. A good one, but a different one. I found out through the grapevine that she had not chosen mine before the actual event and I was so disappointed I was actually in tears. But! I am unbelievably proud of her for choosing for herself and not for me, but I'm still heartbroken. Now that I've come to terms with it, I'm still sad, I won't lie. But again, I'm so proud of her for choosing with her heart. It's her college experience and I have no doubt she will have a good one. By the time she called to tell me her news, I was over my tearful sadness. I wouldn't want her to worry about hurting my feelings for anything! I absolutely don't want to take away from her excitement!

When I was active in the college chapter my friend Smash came through. She was a legacy of another sorority. Specifically, her mother was a member of another sorority. Well, Smash felt most comfortable with us and ultimately chose us. I will never forget her crying while telling a couple of us, her new friends and sisters, that her mom was so mad at her for not choosing her sorority. Her mom.

I thought of Smash and her mom while I was crying about Peanut not choosing my sorority. I began drying up immediately.

I've had friends and sisters contact me since yesterday to find out what Peanut did and I've had to relive it all. My friend Misty called me this morning and said really, didn't I think it was pretty funny that of all people, my little sister didn't choose my sorority? Since it's a pretty well known fact that The Boss Lady bleeds Pink & Green. (do those girly colors surprise my gentle readers?)

So, it's all good, Peanut is going to have a great college experience and a great greek experience! After all, she is already my sister for life and I love her no matter what letters and colors she wears!

We Schedule Those Now?

2008-08-15T17:32:00.003-04:00

Overheard at church office, while new pastor walks by calendar on his way out:

Pastor: Church Drama Meeting?
Secretary: (pointing to calendar) Yes!
Pastor: We schedule those now?

I'm Olympic

2008-08-15T17:29:00.003-04:00

Overheard at home while watching the 2008 Summer Olympic Games:

The Flying Monkey: (in start stance) On mart, set, GO! (running)
TFM: (1st lap through house) ONE!
TFM: (lap 2) TWO!
TFM: (lap 3) DADDY!
DH: Yes, buddy?
TFM: (lap 4) I'm Olympic!
DH: Yes, you are!
TFM: (lap 5) When I grow up, I be Olympic, OK?
DH: OK, buddy.

School's Out for Summer!

2008-08-15T11:44:00.002-04:00

Ok, so I'm behind, actually school is back in. I have been MIA, but hopefully will back in the swing of things soon!

I look forward to posting more about my "fun" life. Don't tell me if it's not really fun, I enjoy thinking it is!

Overheard during a Thundery Afternoon

2008-06-26T17:56:00.003-04:00

Number One Son: (walking to his room) I'm going to play with my Nintendo.
Me: OK.
NOS: Oh, Mom, I was talking to the small ones.

(I'm assuming he meant his sister & brother)

Number One Son: Knock Knock.
Queenie: Who's there?
Number One Son: Um...
The Flying Monkey & Queenie: Um who?
NOS: No, I'm still thinking.
TFM: Five. Days. Later.

(Who says four year olds can't grasp sarcasm?)

MIA

2008-06-21T23:09:00.003-04:00

The Bossy family has been on vacation and since we've returned I've been recovering. Isn't it funny how you need a vacation after vacation? So I've not been motivated to post.

But on another subject, here's a video that reflects how I feel about life things in general. It's fun, enjoy!

My Tax Dollars at Work

2008-06-02T17:35:00.004-04:00

I walked in the door of my neighborhood post office to mail a letter at 1:20 pm. I had one letter, I just needed a stamp. My children were playing at their grandma's house, so I thought I was having a party getting go anywhere alone. Even if it was the post office. In other words, I was not in a hurry, if I had known the line was so long or had my children, I probably would've gone to the grocery store to get a stamp and driven up to the mailbox. (there are no stamp machines in our neighborhood post office anymore - go figure)

There was one woman behind the counter. There are four windows. At 1:52 pm I was walking out of the post office to my car.

That extra 1 cent for postage was obviously not intended for hiring an extra person to work the post office windows. Wow.

So, I'm a Blogger

2008-06-01T20:46:00.006-04:00

It seems like just yesterday that I started this blogging thing. And I'll be honest with you, I started because I was trying to make some money. I wish I could figure out how people do this and make money!

But now that I've started - it's been 9 months now - I have discovered I really like it! And I'll be honest with you again, it's a total release for me. An outlet, a way to let off steam.

Very few people in my life know of my Bossy identity. Of course there's DH, but other than that, a handful of people know that I have this fabulous blog right here! Some of my favorite readers know my mere mortal name, like Jim, Skittle & Mrs. MandyPoo, but they know that if they tell anyone, I would have to kill them. So now, Twin Sister, Air Force Wife and Blondie are in on the secret. Well, since an entire post was about them, I felt I had to tell them!

Don't think I'm going to go let everyone know my secret identity though. I like my outlet. I like being able to vent and type away until I feel better.

And thank you, gentle readers, for making me feel comfortable in doing just that.

Wordless Weekend - Summatime!

2008-05-31T17:09:00.002-04:00

Grrr. Gimme.

2008-05-27T10:15:00.006-04:00

I know you remember me telling you about the tornadoes in my home town. I realized my first post was incomplete, I was so overwhelmed by the news of it all and trying to stay in touch with my family to be sure they were alright, that I never posted a complete post about it.

Physically, they are all safe. My parents lost all the tall trees in their yard, but were so fortunate that none of them caused significant damage to their house. My Nana is safe, but she had a couple of trees come through her roof and damage her attic. The back bedroom has damage, but structurally, the house is salvageable. She also lost most of the trees in her yard, which I'm sad about, since she has been in that house for 55 years and the yard holds as many memories for me as the house does. But, she is safe also.

Why the "Grrr" title, you may ask. Well, I'll tell you why. My parents and Nana both have insurance. They pay for insurance on their property. Each month. Like good citizens. There are people out there grumbling for handouts because they "deserve it" and people like my 83 year old grandmother pay their taxes, pay their insurance premiums and are still waiting on insurance to do their part. Nana is on a fixed income, social security comes each month, she can't afford to pay a contractor to put a new roof on her house all on her own. That is why she pays for insurance. That is her money that the insurance company has not felt the need to come out and give her yet.

So yes. I'll admit it. It upsets me when I see & hear people complaining about the federal government not helping. I know not everyone can afford insurance. I realize that is a fact of life. So I don't think that people with no insurance are not as important as people without insurance. And I don't think that they are more important than the people with insurance. Obviously we are all people and we are all important.

But back to my 83 year old grandmother who has homeowners insurance. Why is she waiting on her insurance company to give her money that is due her? She has done her part. She had tree companies come out to give her quotes on cutting limbs and trees. She had contractors come out and give her quotes on fixing her roof and house. She saved them a step. She is waiting around patiently, while the housing project down the road from her is already being repaired.

That makes me angry. She's elderly, loves her home and still loves her neighborhood. It's also a safety issue at this point, because she can barely see the street anymore from her front window. Thank God my parents are in town to check on her.

She is very independent and has always been such a positive person with tremendous faith. When I spoke to her yesterday she was so down and sounded so sad. She actually said she thought it might be better for everyone if she moved into an assisted living facility. That made me more angry. Simply because the handouts are being addressed before the issues of people who have paid for their insurance companies to take care of them.

After I hung up the phone with her I started noticing that there are some people in our country who just have a handout mentality. Give it to me because I deserve it. Why do you deserve it? Why does anyone deserve it? I pay taxes, I am a good citizen, I have homeowners insurance, car insurance and health insurance. I do my part. Nobody gives me anything for free. Why don't I deserve it?

We celebrated Memorial Day yesterday. We celebrated the sacrifices others made for our freedom. Yes, this is a free country; free meaning we have rights and liberties that other countries do not. It does not mean everything comes at no monetary cost. We must work for what we have. If after working hard and trying to provide for our families we still need help, ok, lets see if we can get some help. But not because we simply deserve it.

(Just for the record, I am not anti-welfare or anti-aid of any kind. I am anti-handout for handout sake. Let's get it straight.)

I am now stepping down off my soapbox, and I am going to call my Nana and see how she is doing today.

She's All Growed Up

2008-05-26T17:11:00.003-04:00

DH's sister Peanut graduated from high school this weekend. I can't believe it. She was 4 when I first met her and she was a small almost-6 year old when she was a flower girl in mine & DH's wedding 12 years ago.

She was beautiful and we are so proud of her. She is going to my alma mater in the fall, so I'm a bit proud of that too.

Way to go, Peanut!!!

Indiana Jones - I Saw It.

2008-05-23T23:34:00.004-04:00

Don't worry. I'm not going to spoil it for anyone else, either. But we saw Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull tonight. And we liked it. A lot.

Number One Son wore his authentic Indiana Jones hat (courtesy of DH) and gave the movie "Two Thumbs Up."

Do This or Else!

2008-05-23T08:49:00.004-04:00

I have posted about annoying emails in the past. I know you have all gotten your share of emails like these. You know, the ones that say "Do this or your big toe will fall off."

This particular one I received last week sums up the frustration and humor at taking these just a bit too seriously! Enjoy!

I just want to thank all of you for your educational emails over the past year.

Thanks to you, I no longer open a public bathroom door without using a paper towel.

I can't use the remote in a hotel room because I don't know what the last person was doing while flipping through the adult movie channels.

I can't sit down on the hotel bedspread because I can only imagine what has happened on it since it was last washed.

I have trouble shaking hands with someone who has been driving because the number one pass-time while driving alone is picking your nose. (Although cell phone usage may be taking the number one spot)

Eating a Little Debbie sends me on a guilt trip because I can only imagine how many gallons of trans fats I have consumed over the years.

I can't touch any woman's purse for fear she has placed it on the floor of a public bathroom. Yuck!

I must send my special thanks to whoever sent me the one about poop in the glue on envelopes because I now have to use a wet sponge with every envelope that needs sealing.

Also, now I have to scrub the top of every can I open for the same reason.

I no longer have any savings because I gave it to a sick girl (Penny Brown) who is about to die in the hospital for the 1,387,258th time.

I no longer have any money at all, but that will change once I receive the $15,000 that Bill Gates/Microsoft and AOL are sending me for participating in their special e-mail program.

I no longer worry about my soul because I have 363,214 angels looking out for me, and St. Theresa's novena has granted my every wish.

I no longer eat KFC because their chickens are actually horrible mutant freaks with no eyes or feathers.

I no longer use cancer-causing deodorants even though I smell like a water buffalo on a hot day.

Thanks to you, I have learned that my prayers only get answered if I forward an email to seven of my friends and make a wish within five minutes.

Because of your concern I no longer drink Coca Cola because it can remove toilet stains.

I no longer can buy gasoline without taking someone along to watch the car so a serial killer won't crawl in my back seat when I'm pumping gas.

I no longer use Saran wrap in the microwave because it causes cancer.

And thanks for letting me know I can't boil a cup of water in the microwave anymore because it will blow up in my face...disfiguring me for life. (I actually saw this on a news program, boil your water with your tea bag or mix in it)

I no longer check the coin return on pay phones because I could be pricked with a needle infected with AIDS.

I no longer go to shopping malls because someone will drug me with a perfume sample and rob me.

I no longer receive packages from UPS or FedEx since they are actually Al Qaeda in disguise.

I no longer shop at Target since they are French and don't support our American troops or the Salvation Army.

I no longer answer the phone because someone will ask me to dial a number for which I will get a phone bill with calls to Jamaica, Uganda, Singapore and Uzbekistan .

I no longer buy expensive cookies from Neiman Marcus since I now have their recipe.

Thanks to you, I can't use anyone's toilet but mine because a big brown African spider is lurking under the seat to cause me instant death when it bites my butt.

And thanks to your great advice, I can't ever pick up $5.00 dropped in the parking lot because it probably was placed there by a molester waiting underneath my car to grab my leg.

I can no longer drive my car because I can't buy gas from certain gas companies!

If you don't send this e-mail to at least 144,000 people in the next 70 minutes, a large dove with diarrhea will land on your head at 5:00 PM this afternoon and the fleas from 12 camels will infest your back, causing you to grow a hairy hump. I know this will occur because it actually happened to a friend of my next door neighbor's ex-mother-in-law's second husband's cousin's beautician...

Have a wonderful day....

Oh, by the way......

A German scientist from Argentina , after a lengthy study, has discovered
that people with insufficient brain activity read their e-mail with their hand on the mouse.

Don't bother taking it off now, it's too late.

Love is in the Air

2008-05-22T19:38:00.003-04:00

We went to a wedding this past weekend. We all went, the bride was a family friend. DH & I are friends with her parents and she lived with us for a brief time when Queenie was a baby.

So it was good to see them - the beautiful bride, her brother and her parents. I miss seeing them and hanging out.

Congratulations and best wishes K & N!

I've Gotta Go - We've Got Cows!

2008-05-22T18:58:00.005-04:00

Hoping you recognize the quote from Twister. Ok, so there were no cows, but there are a lot of trees.

My hometown was hit by tornadoes early in the morning on Mother's Day. The worst tornadoes to hit the area in about 50 years from what I understand.
My dad sent me some crazy pictures of their yard after the storms. They lost all the really tall trees in their yard. And. The tree house tree.
But all are safe. I will post more pictures when I get them. My Nana's house got hit hard, I really want to see pictures of that.

More Storms

2008-05-20T23:19:00.003-04:00

We had more storms in Atlanta tonight. We spent some time in the basement and our area was very fortunate. Areas north of us were hit really hard.
But here is a photo taken just a couple of miles from the Bossy residence. Yikes.

Ugh.

2008-05-20T16:37:00.003-04:00

*update on most recent job interview*

I had taken my resume somewhere and had 2 phone interviews. I had an on site interview 2 weeks ago. I found out today I didn't get that job.

I'm bummed. I hate my job. I cry every night. I feel stressed and sick all the time. And that would be alright if I got paid more than dirt.

Oh well. I'll still be on the lookout. At least I have a job.

Thoughts and prayers to those out there who don't.

Indiana Jones - Don't Spoil It!

2008-05-19T07:49:00.003-04:00

Gentle Readers,

Please don't spoil Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull. And what I mean by that is: If you've seen it, don't spoil it for me! We are taking the kids to see it this weekend, and I don't want to know ANY secrets!

I am a rabid Indiana Jones fan and have been since I saw Raiders of the Lost Ark as a kid and I am having fun introducing the franchise to my children. The Flying Monkey already gets excited to see "Indy Andy Jones" commercials on television.

So, don't email me or call me with secrets, and please put SPOILER in your title if you want to blog about it!

Good day. I said good day!

Wordless Weekend - What Every Good Queenie Needs

2008-05-18T12:08:00.002-04:00

Why I Love Being a Mom

2008-05-10T23:52:00.005-04:00

Being a Mom is a wonderful thing. It's one of the hardest and most rewarding jobs in the world. And it is a job. But I LOVE it. There are so many reasons I love being a mom. I wanted to share some of them with you.

* I love being the parent my children ask to kill the bugs.

* I love having to leave 30 minutes early to get anywhere 10 minutes late.

* I love having dirt stains on left front thigh and left butt cheek all during sports season from the monkey on my hip.

* I love being called "Mrs. [child's name]'s Mom."

* I'm proud that I don't have stretch marks.

* It makes me smile when my sister in law (Marvelous Marie) tells me she loves my "relaxed parenting style" and wishes she could do the same.

* I love slobbery kisses.

* I love giving spit baths.

* I love having to listen carefully to my four year old's word to understand. It has helped me become a better listener.

* I love being able to stomach Chicken McNuggets & pizza on a regular basis.

* I love that when I get in my minivan after my husband drives it the Hannah Montana CD is cranked up too loud.

* I love that when I go to bed at night I am so tired I can hardly move.

* I love that my son is still excited to tell me about his day.

* I love that my daughter will still hug & kiss me in public.

* I love having 3 little people look up to me like I can do no wrong and like I am their biggest hero in the world.

Happy Mothers Day to all the Moms, Grandmas, Mothers To Be & Moms at Heart. Have a wonderful day dedicated just to you.

Steal My What??

2008-05-09T21:41:00.002-04:00

Ok, so I'm tired. And hungry. And I'm driving home. And I'm tired. And hungry. So I'm REALLY grumpy. Then this song comes on the radio. It's a good song, I like it. But the words were hacking me off. Because I was tired. And hungry. And grumpy.

Steal my kisses? I beg your pardon? Let me tell you something Mr. Man. If you think you need to be stealing anything, you don't have any business messing with it. Those are not your kisses to steal.

It's Getting Old.

2008-05-03T00:50:00.004-04:00

Gas prices are making me angry. As they are everyone else. Milk prices are upsetting me a bit too. Food prices are going up and it's hurts our wallets.

But this is the last straw.

What is the world coming to? Goldfish at $7.50 a box??

Yes, it's the big box, but give me a break!

One Monkey's Adventures

2008-05-02T21:47:00.010-04:00

The Flying Monkey has a special little monkey friend whom he loves dearly and takes everywhere. He is wonderful stuffed monkey with a long tail that makes him extra fun to twirl around.

Cooper is also the very special name that The Flying Monkey himself chose for his very special friend. It is challenging for my 4 year old monkey with speech and language delays to form that "K" sound, among others. So Cooper is a name that this mommy loves to hear over and over. And it makes me smile when Monkey touches his neck while he says Cooper. He says he's "doing his homework."

But we do have to be sure that Cooper stays at home while The Flying Monkey is at school. He might get lost or torn up. Monkey thinks Cooper is sad or bored without him there, but I told him he is fine. Cooper went to work with me one day and I took some photos to prove to Monkey that Cooper is not sad or bored.

So here are the photos I took for T.F. Monkey of Cooper's special adventures with The Boss Lady:

"That's my boy right there. I might miss him today."

"I guess I'll listen to a little music and dance."

"It's time for a little playtime! Wee!""Can I help you do anything? I'm a big kid!""What a busy day, are we on our way home?""I'll help with a little housework too.""Finally, quiet time with my favorite boy in the world."

T.F. Monkey loved the pictures of this day & thought they were so fun. But he still thinks Cooper is sad and bored without him. He's probably right.

Cute Kids' Products

2008-04-30T07:56:00.003-04:00

So Skittle now has an Ebay store. Good for her! I'll be checking it out. I have not made the move to Ebay, but I have had a website for my products for some time.
My business is small, but you have to start somewhere, right? Also, children are expensive, so I am hunkering down to get some extra income in the door. :)
Go visit my site, Turtle Dove Creations. I make bag tags for adults and children, hand painted totes and lap trays, and hooded bath towels.
Each item in handcrafted with care. Go check it out!

Interpreter?

2008-04-30T07:52:00.004-04:00

I need an interpreter. I had a nightmare night before last. I dreamed someone was after my family and I was trying to scream for help but couldn't. Why can't you scream in your dreams?
The "monster" that was after my family was an armless woman with black shark eyes who was wearing an "Aunt Bea" dress. Remember Aunt Bea from the Andy Griffith Show? Yeah. It was a weird one.
And I did scream. Apparently, I woke up DH and scared Number One Son. DH said it sounded like an injured cat. All 4 times I did it.
Any ideas on what it meant?

Go Smoltzy, Go!

2008-04-23T15:10:00.003-04:00

John Smoltz, long time pitcher for the Atlanta Braves, pitched his 3000th career strike out last night at Turner Field in Atlanta.

Oh yeah, I was there. It was very very cool! The Braves ended up losing the game, but it was still a fun night.

Go Braves!

But Mom!

2008-04-23T14:56:00.004-04:00

Number One Son is 9. And he is very 9. He has already started noticing girls, but he won't admit it. I can just tell. He has a lot of friends, he just a very social kid. Even when he should be doing work in class.

But this morning he threw me for a loop. I handed him his clothes for school. (a pair of shorts and a polo style shirt)

NOS: Mom, I don't like any of these clothes.
Me: What clothes?
NOS: These clothes you bought me.
Me: These are great clothes!
NOS: Um, they're not cool.
Me: Not cool?
NOS: Yeah, you don't buy me cool clothes.
Me: Has someone at school told you your clothes aren't cool?
NOS: No, I just know they're not cool. Can you buy me some cool clothes?

Well, who knew? He also did another body snatcher thing.
He brushed his teeth without me reminding him. And. FLOSSED.

I don't know who the little girl is, but I know there's one behind all of this.

...Movin' On Up...

2008-04-23T14:52:00.002-04:00

...not really. :(

*Update on the job interview*

So, I didn't get the job, they hired someone internally. Which is okay, I can handle rejection if the person I lost the job to has been there already and knows the ropes. Good for her.

But I'm still out there looking, I took my resume to someone today, hopefully I'll be going in for an interview soon!

Invasion of the Body Snatchers

2008-04-14T20:19:00.004-04:00

I don't know if I've ever mentioned it before, but Number One Son is an incredibly picky eater. Trying new things is not on his "To Do" list.

Tonight was lasagna night and as I placed everyone's plate in front of them, I fully expected to hear, "Oh maaaaan!" as he saw what we were eating. Instead, I heard nothing and when I returned with milk glasses I saw a strange, unexpected sight.

Number One Son was eating his lasagna. Wait, let me rephrase that. He was chowing down. I made a big deal and demanded he tell me who he was and what he had done with my son.

But he was definitely smiling from ear to ear when he realized just how pleased his mom was.

She Did It!

2008-04-13T00:17:00.008-04:00

This was going to be a wordless weekend, but I had say something about this photo.

My beautiful daughter Queenie is 7 going on 15. Really, she is quite teenager-ish about some of the things she does. Like her room. It's an ongoing battle to get her to keep her room clean. No matter how many times I pick up it just gets cluttered again. I honestly don't know how she does it.

Anyway, her cousin came to visit this weekend and spent the night Friday. I told her that KD was coming and she needed to get her room straight. "Don't worry, I'll come help you if you'll just get started." Well, when I went into her room to check on her progress, she was done!

Apparently cousins need to come sleep over more often.
This is how her floor looks this weekend. She cleaned up on her own with no help from Mom at all.
Atta Girl!

You Are My Sunshine

2008-04-11T16:45:00.004-04:00

Oh what a beautiful day! It's spring (at least for a little while) and we totally took advantage of it today!
We played outside basically all day, then took the dog for a walk while riding our scooters.
And what was the most fun about that was stopping and talking to all the neighbors who were outside enjoying the weather as well.

How did you enjoy your beautiful spring day?

Please Don't Go Girl

2008-04-04T19:16:00.004-04:00

Don't worry, I'm not going anywhere...

The Hardest - But Most Rewarding - Job in the World

2008-04-03T12:06:00.008-04:00

I want my children to be independent people who can make wise choices on their own. I want them to be confident people who aren't afraid to be bold and unique. We all want that for our children.
Queenie is rolling right along. I have no worries about just how independent and unique she will be. She's pretty responsible too. She's an all A student and she keeps up with all her work. Her room looks like a teenage girl's room, though, we're working on the mess.
The Flying Monkey has a little way to go, he's young. But he is a responsible little guy at preschool, he knows the drill.
Number One Son I struggle with. He's my baby, I'll be honest. I have a hard time letting him do things on his own. But I have started cutting the apron strings. One thing I did was leave his book report that was due this week completely up to him. He is old enough to know when it is due and what he needs to do to get it done. He didn't do it. And I am kicking myself because I feel like I should have kept bugging him about it. He probably would've done it had I done that. I realize, though, that would not have helped him in the long run.
He will turn it in tomorrow with points taken off for being late, and it will be an awesome report. But it will be late and I hope that will be the kicker for him to realize he has got to step it up.
I am in tears right now as I type this, though.
I know ultimately, this is a lesson he had to learn from his teacher. Not me. But you know, I'm his mom.
Whoever said parenting was easy if you did it right was out of their mind. It's the hardest job in the world, if you're doing it right. If it's easy, you must not be doing it right.
But I wouldn't have any other job. I love my benefits. :)

Back on the Market

2008-04-01T11:50:00.003-04:00

I had a job interview today. I was a bit nervous. But we'll see. I won't count my chickens before they're hatched.
If anything, it was good practice, it's been a while since I've had an interview.
Have a great week!

Overheard at Preschool - Hug Me!

2008-03-31T14:38:00.006-04:00

Overheard at Preschool:
The Flying Monkey & his friend Emma Grace.

Emma Grace: Bye {Monkey}!
The Flying Monkey: Bye Emma Grace!
EG: (Giggle, giggle - running toward TFM)
TFM: Hug me, Sistah! (holding open arms)
EG: Hug me, Brothah! (running into Monkey's arms and hugging!)

Wordless Weekend - The Birds Say Spring Has Sprung

2008-03-30T19:07:00.002-04:00

What Makes the World Go 'Round?

2008-03-28T15:28:00.003-04:00

Do you ever wonder? Well, I'll tell you what makes the world go 'round. Dandelions. Sounds too simple, doesn't it? Well, it is.

But in our hurry, rush and go lives, we very rarely take the time to stop and smell the flowers.

Today we were rushing, The Flying Monkey goes to see his speech therapist twice a week and we were flying (no pun intended) to get to Mrs. Toodah's office.

Remaining true to himself, Monkey stopped to pick a dandelion. And blow the seeds. I joined him. We had fun. And we were not late.

Do You Understand?

2008-03-25T09:13:00.000-04:00

"In the event that a parent has a problem or complaint with our program, they should submit a written report to the Director. Should the Director not resolve the grievance, it may be brought to the attention of the Weekday Education Board."

Is that hard to understand?

It's Spring! So Put On Your Coat.

2008-03-24T15:44:00.005-04:00

We had a wonderful time this weekend, we had fun coloring eggs, hunting eggs, having quality time together etc., etc. The weekend was beautiful!!!

And today... it snowed.

Crazy.

Overheard - Can I Have a Quarter?

2008-03-21T22:15:00.006-04:00

Overheard in our friendly neighborhood Mexican restaurant:

Number One Son: Can I have a quarter?

MIL: What happened to the quarters I gave you last week?

Number One Son: I'm saving my money for college!!!

Daddy's Day Off

2008-03-17T22:23:00.000-04:00

Wow. So DH just returned last night from a business trip. A long trip. He was gone for 11 days. In a row. Good LARD, was I ready for him to come home!

We did alright while he was gone, the kids just really missed him and they were really tired of looking at Mommy and especially tired of listening to Mommy. It's OK, I was a little tired of me too.

DH decided he was going to take the day off today to just get some rest. I let The Flying Monkey stay home with him today too. They had a nice boys' morning.

And I was so proud of DH. He has the capability to work from home. It could be convenient if his company would really let him do that. But usually he is working from home when he is home sick. Which I hate, I feel he shouldn't be charged a sick day if he's actually working (which he is). But, who am I? I'm not in charge there and until I am things will stay the way they are! Ha, ha!

Oh yeah, so the reason I am proud of DH - he really stayed home today. Like I said, he usually works when he is home. He just can't help it. "These things have to be done!" is usually what I hear. But today... He didn't open his laptop and he didn't answer his BlackBerry. (well, I have to admit he might have before I got home or when I wasn't watching...) But from what I saw, he never opened them. That's a big deal, folks.

(for some reason, I deleted this the first time, in a fit of "oh, people actually read this" kind of thing... forgive me, it's back!)

Photo Challenge Post

2008-03-15T23:21:00.005-04:00

I borrowed this from Are You Willing to Change? I hope she doesn't mind!
Mrs. MandyPo o also did something similar, but I might do hers later!

Here's how it works:
1. Go to www.photobucket.com
2. Type in your answer to the question in the "search" box
3. Use only the first page
4. Insert the picture into your Blog

1.) What is your Relationship Status?

2.) Who is your Celebrity Crush?

3.) Who is your Favorite Band / Artist?

4.) What is your Favorite Movie?

5.) What kind of Pet do you have?

6.) Where do you live?

7.) Where do you work?

8.) What do you look like?

9.) What do you drive?

11.) What is your Favorite TV Show?

12.) Describe yourself:

14.) What is your Name?

15.) What's your Favorite Candy?

Identity Crisis

2008-03-15T19:51:00.003-04:00

My friend Mrs. MandyPoo is having a bit of an identity crisis. She has decided her blog needs a new name. Now, I love saying "Poo." So, I think that she should retain the "Poo" in her name.

There are many things about Poo that I love, her sense of humor, her family, her love for UGA, her honesty, but mostly, I love saying "Poo."

Now since JM, Poo & Baby Eli live with many wonderful fur-babies, you could say it's almost farm-like. So, what about "Mrs. MandyPoo's Farm?" Or even "Mrs. MandyPoo Had a Farm?"

I like it... it has "Poo" in it. So I can still say it and giggle.

How Sweet It Is

2008-03-15T18:52:00.007-04:00

My family is fun. More specifically, my children are fun! There is never a dull moment and we always have fun things to do!

We've had 3 fun birthdays and a fun school dance recently. Here are some fun photos! Enjoy!

Number One Son enjoys his sopapilla!

Every good Queenie needs her Tea Time!

The Flying Monkey settles down for a cupcakeNumber One Son busts a moveDancing Queenie

Wordless Weekend - Nature at Work

2008-03-15T13:07:00.003-04:00

Overheard at Preschool - Captain Random to the Rescue

2008-03-11T15:05:00.003-04:00

Overheard at preschool:

Friendly Neighborhood Firefighter: What do you do if your clothes catch on fire?
The Flying Monkey & classmates: Stop, Drop and Roll!
FNF: Good! Now raise your hand if you have a smoke detector in your house.
TFM: (Raising hand with 3 fingers) We have three!
FNF: Remember to tell your parents to change the batteries today, since the time just changed!
TFM: We have new carpet!

In case you wanted to know...

No, YOU'RE Stupid

2008-03-05T23:00:00.006-05:00

I'd really love to just stay at home all day tomorrow with my children. Keep them out of school even. I would love to be able to stay at home.

But mainly I hate my job. It's just been a really stupid crazy few weeks. But it's nothing that no one else hasn't faced in their job.

I just am waiting until the day when I can have a plain old simple job that I go to each day and leave all the baggage when I go home. And keep the same hours as the kids.

So, my post title pretty much reflects how I feel at the moment about my job. I'm sure you can all relate at least a little bit!

I'm Quirky! (not to be confused with Perky.)

2008-03-05T22:38:00.004-05:00

Poo tagged me. This is kind of fun.

6 quirks about me.

1. I have to have complete darkness to sleep. Which is hard to do with 3 children and a husband who likes to fall asleep with the TV on. But I have this really cool mask I wear over my eyes. I even wore it at Girl Scout camp a couple of weeks ago.

2. I don't like the self checkout option in stores. No one uses it right. Except me, of course.

3. I don't like to speak in front of a crowd. I get very very nervous. However, if I am onstage in a play or singing, I don't get nervous. At all.

4. I ate cherry pie filling out of the can while I was pregnant with all 3 of my children.

5. I love Jon Bon Jovi like I was a silly little girl. Really, I'm not exaggerating.

6. People who don't have patience with children really piss me off.

So, it's out there, I'm not going to tag anyone, just do it if you want... I'd love to see who wants to play along!

Where'd She Go?

2008-03-04T14:52:00.001-05:00

I've been out of it the past week. Going through some crazy things at work these days. Just wanted to say hello and let you know that I am still alive. Not too Bossy at the moment, but I'll get there.

Have a great week!

Overheard at Disney World

2008-02-27T13:01:00.004-05:00

Overheard at Disney World:

Queenie: Let's ride Splash Mountain!
Number One Son: No, the hills are too high! It's a roller coaster!
DH: It's a water ride, it's a lot of fun!
Number One Son: No, the hills are too high! It's a roller coaster!
Queenie: You're chicken.
Number One Son: I'm not chicken! I'm scared!

The Magic of Reading

2008-02-19T22:26:00.006-05:00

I always enjoy going over visit my friend The Chick. She posted this meme that I found so interesting and fun.

Here are the Rules:

1. Pick up the nearest book ( of at least 123 pages).

2. Open the book to page 123.

3. Find the fifth sentence.

4. Post the next three sentences.

5. Tag five people & post a comment here once you post it to your blog, so I can come see.

The book that just happens to be closest to me at the moment is Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul. Because I live with 3 of them. I have not gotten to page 123 yet, but the fifth line of page 123 goes like this:

We know we are meant to embody strength, we know we are not what we were meant to be, and so we feel our brokenness as a source of shame.

It continues with:

As we spoke of his wound recently, and how needed to enter into it for healing, Dave protested. "I don't even want to go there. It all feels so true."

As a woman, I am always saying that men don't understand us. This book tells me why. Well, not these lines just pulled out of thin air, but the portions of the book I've read! And it's very enlightening to figure out how men are wired and what's going on there.

Now, actually, Chick didn't tag me, but this was fun, so I'm doing it anyway!

So I am tagging Skittle because when she was younger I never saw her read (XOXO); MandyPoo because she does not have time to read at all anymore; Claire because she's smart and I bet she reads all the time; Jamie because she is a new blogger and I want to help her with ideas; and Jim because he needs to take a break from his sermon planning.

Please feel free to play along whether I tagged you or not. This one is fun!

We're All in This Together

2008-02-19T21:53:00.006-05:00

I feel I need to apologize for my crazy woman rant a few days ago. No matter how much they get on my nerves, I shouldn't pick on other moms. We're a part of an exclusive club. We're awesome! (as Number One Son called me the other day)

I also don't want to be the blogger who constantly blogs about all the really petty things that make me mad. Like pocket lint and cowlicks.

I read a wild post from a blogger recently about a negative fast food environment experience. Which I understand, we all understand that, but it's not a 5 star restaurant, they work for minimum wage.... Anyway, blah blah blah, I'm just saying, I felt bad after I posted and I don't want to be "that blogger." I like when people read me and smile.

So, cheers to my mom friends, cheers to my non-mom friends and cheers to you all!
Have a gggrrreat week!

** Note ** Do not despair my fair readers, I will surely post very soon about blinkers and gum smackers.

The Happiest Place on Earth!

2008-02-19T16:14:00.012-05:00

DH and I went a few places on our honeymoon. One of our destinations was Disney World. So when our 12th anniversary was approaching, we decided to take the whole family to Disney to celebrate.I'm sure you're thinking, this would be the time when Boss Lady would write about all the oblivious people in the world who were at Disney World this weekend. No. Not today, my friends! It was a perfect day. We were together, we had our beautiful children with us, and the weather was incredible. I am not exaggerating when I say, "It was the perfect day."

I hope you enjoy our photos from our perfect anniversary adventure!

Number One Son, the budding photographerQueenie & Jessie, my favorite CowgirlsThe Flying Monkey & his favorite friend, Woody!

When I Fall in Love... Part Deux

2008-02-17T07:00:00.001-05:00

Part Two of "When I Fall in Love."

DH and I had our first official date on July 4, 1995. We went to a family cookout then to watch fireworks downtown. It was fun. It was sort of a group date. Yeah, I know, not really a hot date, huh? But, it was nice. Really, really nice.

Things went well, we went on more dates, and well, to make a long story short, by the end of August we were engaged.

People have asked "How in the world did you know so early?"

I just knew. Honestly. I just knew he was the one. One day it was very painfully obvious.

He really just bounded into my life when I was not expecting it or wanting it even and completely took over my heart.

So on February 17, 1996, we became husband and wife. It's been the best 12 years of my life and I can't wait to get started on the next 12.

It's Hard Work. Period.

2008-02-13T15:58:00.006-05:00

I am feeling very annoyed. I am a mom. I also work outside the home. Because I have to. I would LOVE to be able to stay home with my kids, you have no idea.

I do have an identity. I had a career before my children were born, I have a job to pay the bills now, and I will have a career when the children are older. I will always be a mom, but that is my primary job now.

Number One Son & Queenie are in elementary school, so they are in school most of the day and The Flying Monkey is preschool aged. I get more time with them than most working moms, so don't get me wrong, I am NOT complaining.

But here is what I hate. It annoys me to no end to hear a stay at home mom complain. Well, let me finish. It annoys me to hear a stay at home mom complain about silly things like having to go to the grocery store, or not "getting a break." Really? I know being a mom is a hard job. Really. It's hard all around, no matter what else you do on top of it. And being a stay at home mom is not a picnic. It's not soap operas and bon bons. If you're doing it right.

"I have so much to do today. I have to do laundry and vacuum and start dinner. And don't forget I have to do a craft with Junior. I just don't know if I'm going to be able to make it to the grocery store today."

Give me a break. This is no disrespect to my SAHM friends, who I am extremely jealous of. I'll admit it. Thankfully, none of my SAHM friends complain like that. They are all fun moms who make me laugh and smile and want to be like them.

And I used to stay at home, briefly, when Number One Son was a toddler and I was pregnant with Queenie. So, I DO understand needing a "break" every once in a while. Grown up conversations every now and then are necessities. Ha!

I could go through my day and see how busy I am, but it's not about who's more busy. It's not a competition about who is more busy, who is the better mom, who can do more, who has it better.
It's about being a mom. Period. Don't complain about how bad you have it and how tired you are, when people would kill to be able to spend half the time with their children that you do.

And as much as we love being at home with our children, not everyone can afford that luxury and it does no good to make someone feel bad about not being able to do it. My beautiful Marvelous Marie will testify to that.

I have a great job. I can drop my older children off at school, I take the youngest with me, I can pick the others up from school and go home in the afternoon with everyone and we have time together. I don't complain. Well, I do complain about my job, but NOT the schedule! :)

I'll tell you why this was all over me today. I would do anything to be able to be at home all day with my kids. Really. But I can't, and it's ok. I'm not mad about it.
But I encountered a woman today who doesn't do anything but take her children to preschool and go play tennis or shop. And she was complaining about how she never had time for herself and never had time to do this or do that. And that she never had a break from children and her house was a wreck because of all this.
What do you do 5 mornings a week while your angel is at preschool? Just curious.

So, I apologize if I've offended anyone with my post. I didn't mean to. Like I said, it's not directed at SAHM's in general. Since I am a Wannabe SAHM.

And I imagine anyone who fits the bill doesn't enjoy the Boss Lady's posts anyway, so I'm probably ok.

So, here I am signing off,
A Mom.

I Need a Tissue.

2008-02-13T15:48:00.002-05:00

No wonder we're all so sick. It was close to 70 degrees Monday. Right now, it's exactly 32 degrees and it's snowing. Yes, I said snowing. Just some small flurries, but it's snowing.

I'm getting ready to call the hospital to reserve the family room, since we'll all be up there being treated for pneumonia in the next couple of days.

Girls Behaving Badly

2008-02-11T14:59:00.000-05:00

Did you watch the Grammy Awards last night? I have to admit, I didn't. I'm so over it all. From the writer's strike to attention hams who think we give a rat's ass about what shoes they have on to crazy celebrities who can't seem to find (or even hire) a designated driver. I just don't care to watch.

I know not all celebrities are obnoxious, but obviously the ones who chase the cameras are. I'm feeling all kinds of love for Natalie Cole at the moment, though. She didn't mess around when she said that Amy Winehouse shouldn't have won all those awards. And I have to admit that I agree with her to a degree.

Don't get me wrong, I think Amy Winehouse earned those Grammys - she is very talented musician. Who also happens to have some issues. But what I agree with is what Ms. Cole said about society teaching our youth that they can be rewarded for bad behavior. Um, yeah, that's exactly what our society is teaching our youth.

And it's not Amy Winehouse's fault. Take a look around, that ship set sail a long time ago.

How to Break the News?

2008-02-10T20:54:00.001-05:00

M passed away today. She was a long time friend of the family and DH and I are so very sad. I know she is no longer in pain, and that must bring her family comfort, but I still grieve for them.

She was also employed at Number One Son's and Queenie's school. DH and I are wondering how on earth to tell the kids. We found out about her death right at bedtime tonight, so we definitely knew that telling them tonight was out of the question. I am not really sure how they will handle it at school tomorrow, so we are actually thinking we might should tell the kids in the morning before school. I just want the news to come from us. I just don't know...

I'm on my way to go tuck all three of them in bed one more time and give them big hugs. Hugs to you all, too.

Wordless Weekend - My How They've Grown

2008-02-09T06:00:00.001-05:00

When I Fall in Love...

2008-02-08T08:04:00.000-05:00

Don't worry, I'm still in love with DH. It's just that it's February. 12 years ago this month, we exchanged marriage vows and began our life together as husband and wife.

The Chick told a great story about how she and The Hub met and fell in love, so that made me think, since it is our anniversary month and Valentines are in the air, why not take the time to tell about mine and DH's story?

DH and I met several months before we ever went out on a date. We met at a church picnic, of all things. I thought he was a nice guy. Now, the thing to note here is that I'm a bit shy. When I first meet someone, yes, I am shy. But I do warm up and then it's hard to get me to shut up! The other thing to note is that DH was a new minister on staff at said church. So I met him and then about 10 minutes later he stuck his hand out to me over the pecan pie and introduced himself. (which we had already done) So, I shyly said, "Yes, I know. We met already." I did forget to tell him my name again, like I said, I'm shy.
He will tell you that he thought I was blowing him off. I wasn't!

So, I was away at college but I would come home every so often on the weekends. DH would call my apartment to say hello and let me know what was going on for college students over the weekend. He's a nice guy who never meets a stranger and he's always been that way. So, yes, I was a little clueless, I really thought he called all the college kids.

* Another thing I should mention is that DH was not a 40 year old minister to senior adults or anything like that. He was 24 years old minister to students. It was his job was to hang out with us. So you can see why I might have thought he called everyone! *

My roommates, on the other hand, were wise to DH's motives.

Sunflower: "He TOTALLY likes you."
Smash: "Um, isn't it obvious?"

I don't remember if those were their exact words, but you get the idea. That is how my girls talked back then and they still do. Smash reminded me the other week that it was "SO obvious" that DH liked me back then.

So when I graduated from college and moved the big 40 miles home, we started spending a little more time together. I started hanging out with the college students, it just happened naturally. After a little while, I decided he was a little cute, so maybe he should come with me to a family cookout.

To be continued...

Football, Commercials & Hannah, Oh My!

2008-02-02T12:41:00.001-05:00

Well, it's a busy weekend! Because obviously, it's Super Bowl weekend. Not that I have any allegiances to either team. It's about the commercials and the half time show for me. And who am I going to cheer for? Yes, New England has had an undefeated season, that's pretty impressive. But basically, since I'm a silly woman, I'll admit it, it comes down to either cheering for Baby Manning or Baby Daddy.
I'll decide at half time.

The other reason we have a big weekend is because I am taking Queenie & Peanut to see the Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus concert movie. Queenie loves Hannah and she's just head over heels for the Jonas Brothers, who are in this movie too. I'm actually pretty psyched myself. We're getting all dolled up and we're going to make quite an event out of it.
Look for an update and possibly photos.

Have a great one! Our local groundhog said we're having an early spring, so I'm going with him!

Hold on to Your Purse

2008-01-31T23:12:00.000-05:00

I just read an article where a boy in Oregon parked his bike inside a Goodwill Thrift Store and it was sold for $6.99. It all turned out alright, since the person who bought it came forward after reading an article about the goof. Poor kid. I hope he bought a lock for that bike when he got it back!

The funny thing is that a Goodwill spokesman said this had happened before. Once a janitor left a mop and bucket out on the floor and when he returned it had been sold. Really?

Hold on to your purses and kids when you shop.

People Actually Do Read Me!

2008-01-31T20:05:00.000-05:00

My beautiful friend Skittle has given me such a nice award! I appreciate this gesture, you read me! I will in turn pass it along to some wonderful blogger friends I've discovered!

1. The land of The Chick is fun and entertaining and overwhelming all at the same time. I always enjoy a trip over to the coop.

2. I like visiting Claire because she is young and fun and reminds me of my young "carefree" days.

3. In the Meantime, (like the way I did that?) a visit here keeps me thinking.

4. As does a trip to Jim's Gems, which I know Skittle already mentioned, but I can too!

5. And I like reading about the Dawgs at Quiver of Three. He doesn't post often, but when he does, it's good!

Ice Cold Milk and an Oreo Cookie

2008-01-30T22:53:00.000-05:00

After-school snack time in the Boss Lady household can be challenging. Three bossy kids, three bossy tastes, one bossy boss. What's for snack?!?

Yesterday, it was popcorn, it tamed all three savages quite well. Today it was Oreo cookies. I don't give those out often, but I was feeling warm and mommy-ish.

Now, I guess you might have figured out by now that all 3 of my boss-kins march to their own very distinctive drummers. And we love it that way. It keeps us on our toes and I know I have 3 very creative and intelligent people growing up around me.

Well, today while Number One Son & Queenie are contently eating their 3 Oreo cookies while finishing their homework, The Flying Monkey is sitting down, staring at his 3 Oreos.

The Flying Monkey: "Mommy. Please, I have some milk, please?"
Me: "You want some milk?"
TFM: "Yes. To dip my cookie."
Me: "Oh. OK."

No one in our house eats our Oreos that way. We all just bite into them, with the exception of Number One Son, who opens them and eats the filling first.

So, I bring a cup of milk to The Flying Monkey and watch him dip his first cookie in the milk. Dip, dip, dip, shake. Bite. Bite. Look. Bite. He does this with each cookie until he's done. He then takes his cup into the kitchen and puts it on the counter.

Me: "Wait, you still have some milk, finish it."
TFM: "No, it has cookie in it. I done."

My 3 year old has mastered the Oreo Dunk. His father is so proud.

I'm the Anti-Boycotter

2008-01-28T16:29:00.000-05:00

I've always hated when the term "anti" was added to anything. And I don't like "boycott" either. It sounds like too much energy is being exerted on not liking something. If don't like something, I avoid it. Simple as that.

I heard someone use the term othercott once. For instance, if you don't like what a movie "stands for," go see something else. Wow. Sounds pretty easy to me.

We like to othercott things in our household. With 3 children, we have to othercott a lot of things. There would really be no since in getting our knickers in a knot if we didn't like something, our knickers would pretty much be in a knot all the time.

I saw where a federal appeals court OK'd an "anti-abortion" slogan on Arizona license plates. What got me about the article was the "anti-abortion slogan" reference. The license plates were for the Arizona Life Coalition, which is a Pro-Life group. The slogan on the plates is "Choose Life." That's what Pro-Life organizations are supposed to be about. Helping women become educated about other alternatives. I personally am Pro Life. I believe the best choice is to choose life. I think most people would agree, life is a good thing. So I would prefer that a woman who was pregnant choose an avenue other than abortion. And I would prefer that because I personally believe that life begins at conception. That is my opinion. That is what I believe. It does not make me anti-abortion.

Here's why:
There are situations that I personally have never been in that would make a decision like that so difficult.
If I were pregnant and sick and the doctor told DH and me that I would die if I carried to term I don't know what we would decide.
If I had been raped and were pregnant, I have no idea what I would do.
I have never been in those situations. Nor would I want to be.
But what I do know is that every time I was pregnant I declined the prenatal test that detects Down Syndrome in a fetus. It just didn't matter to me. I would've carried the baby anyway.

I know there are plenty of people out there who are true "anti" people. And they do spoil it for the rest of us. I doubt someone who was truly anti-abortion would even bother to care if people were educated about alternatives. See any crazy loud protest for what I think is an example of that. I feel like being anti-something is just a lot of energy wasted that could be directed towards something you are passionately Pro about.

Pro Family. Pro Exercise. Pro Education. Pro Fun. Pro Gardening. Pro Chocolate. Pro Jon Bon Jovi.

A Little Snowstorm

2008-01-19T17:55:00.000-05:00

In the south, we deal with a "little snowstorm" a bit differently than people in other areas of the country!
Here we are, having another snow day! It started this morning and it's still coming down!

We're currently getting warm by the fire and getting ready for dinner.

I hope you enjoy this glimpse what our day looked like.

Snow makes everything beautiful

Queenie threw some snowballs

Did you just throw that at me?The boys were being boys & enjoying the snowfallOur back deck @
11 AM@ 1:30 PM
@ 3 PM
It's dinnertime and the snow is still coming! I wonder what photos I can post tomorrow! We take what we can get down here! Enjoy your weekend!

Friday Funny - What'cha Doin?

2008-01-18T14:52:00.000-05:00

It's Friday, we're getting ready for a long weekend! Yay!

Since I'll be spending it with my 4 favorite children - an 8, 6, 3 & 37 year old - I'd thought I'd share a "funny."

Number One Son & Queenie got in the car after school telling a joke. Together. It rhymes.

Here it is for your enjoyment. Get ready to either laugh or gag.

Queenie: What'cha doin'?
Number One Son: Eatin' chocolate.
Q: Where'd ya get it?
NOS: My dog dropped it.
Q: Where'd he drop it?
NOS: In the sewer.
Q: What's it taste like?
NOS: Dog manure.

Yes. Eeew.

Have a great weekend with the favorite children in your life, no matter how old they are!

Has the Bible Changed?

2008-01-17T14:55:00.000-05:00

That is the question you'll hear people in a church ask who are opposed to change.

I don't think I've mentioned this before, but I work in a church. I am actually the weekday preschool director at a small church in a metropolitan suburb. It didn't used to be a small church. It used to be "the place to be." But like everything else, things change. Pop culture changes. Technology changes. People change. Communities change.

"We've never done it that way before."
"Why do we have to change it?"
"Every time someone new comes in, we change things."

This church is full of old people and grumpy people. Sorry to sound ugly, but that's the way it is. And some of the grumpy people are young, so that's not a hand in hand thing. The majority of the young families have gone on to other places. They are thinking of their children. They want to be entertained. That is the society we live in. It may not be ideal, but if we want to reach a community for Christ and that community wants to be entertained, then entertain them. Be bold and exciting! Why can't churches make worship fun? I don't care what style music it has, make it fun! I don't think Jesus was boring, anyway. People flocked to follow him. He must have had a magnetic personality.

So, here's where I back pedal. Not all life and vitality comes from the young. So my apologies for the elderly grumpy pants photo. It was the funniest one I found. That's all. There are a lot of wonderful people at this church who want life and vitality and excitement and who are over age 60. But the future of the church is with the young. That's the reality.

This is such a random all over the place post, but it just crawled all over me today. It was a bad day, just dumb church stuff. But for example, I heard a couple of teachers fussing about the church not paying their nursery workers anymore. Huh? Why should a church pay their members to serve? Then the ranting about the new children's minister changing everything started. This church is struggling financially because people have left and some of the ones who are still there are not tithing for one reason or another. They even let a secretary go because they couldn't afford to pay her. Come on. Again, if they're struggling financially, why pay church members when they should be serving? (again, these are church members, not staff members, that's a different matter) Church members should serve willingly in an area they enjoy.

I sound like I am talking out of both sides of my mouth, serve but be entertained. But I'm not. It can be both ways! Church can be fun! It should be fun! I want my children to know that being a Christian is fun! I also want them to serve with a joyful willing heart! Not because they'll get something in return!

That is not what Christ modeled. He served, he washed people's feet, he got water from wells, he was the friend of the friendless.

The Bible hasn't changed, but if the world around it changes, changes should be made in how it is presented. Example: Leave it to Beaver was a hit in 1957. The Brady Bunch was a hit in 1969. The Office is a hit in 2008. We all still love to laugh, but the way sitcoms get us to laugh has changed over the years.

Again, I say, no. The Bible has not changed. It is still the instruction book we use to get through life on this earth. But yes, we do need to occasionally change up the way we read it. The way we present it. I'll dress up and read a book for Number One Son's class and they love it! I don't have to do that with Queenie's class, but I do have to read it with excitement for both!

And I certainly hope that I model a joyful servant life for my children, my family and my friends.

SNOW!

2008-01-16T19:15:00.000-05:00

We live in the Southeast, where it never snows. Well, every once in a while, but it hasn't snowed (and "stuck") here in about 6 years.

But it did today!!! Yippee! And we sure do hope it keeps snowing so we can have a super fun SNOW DAY tomorrow!!!! The kids are dying to make snow angels! They tried today, but there wasn't enough snow on the ground and it got dark too soon!

It is very possible the city could shut down because like I said, it never snows here and I'm sure all the stores were packed with people buying milk and bread. I don't know how those 2 things help you in a "snowstorm" but they seem to be what people grab.

What would you do on a rarely seen snow day?

My Day in Pictures

2008-01-14T22:05:00.000-05:00

Normally, I am at work during the day, with not much time for anything else until I pick the kids up from school. Today my mom came up for a visit, so I took the day off and got to do fun things with her. So I thought I'd blog a different way today! Enjoy!

Took the kids to school, attended Number One Son & Queenie's awards programs.

Lunch and mall time with my mom.
Went to the bank and the post office.
Drove around and showed Mom the community "progress."
Picked up the kids from school.
Homework, dinner and Brownie meeting! (yay, it was our cookie meeting!)Home and Goodnight!

Is it Time to Make Some Money?

2008-01-13T22:37:00.001-05:00

I signed up with PayPerPost , and my blog was finally approved after months of blogging! I'm very excited! I get to take opportunities to write about things and hopefully make some money!
I'm learning a little bit about html coding (a very little bit) and like I said, maybe I'll be able to make money in the process!

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* Good reputation ~ I've heard lots of good things about PayPerPost from other bloggers!

Click on the badge at the bottom of this post to check out PayPerPost. Maybe you can help me out with some tips, I'm a slow learner!

But I do love this blogging thing, it gives me license to just type and vent about anything on my mind! I hope that once I start being given topics to blog about I don't go blank! I'm going a little blank at the moment!

Anyway, some blogger friends of mine are doing this, so I thought I'd give it a try! I haven't learned too much yet, but I hope to have great things to report soon about PayPerPost!

My New Favorite Show...

2008-01-12T00:11:00.000-05:00

...is Lifetime's new show, "How to Look Good Naked." Carson Kressley ("Queer Eye for the Straight Guy") helps woman overcome anxieties and negative ideas about their appearances and helps them feel beautiful. Without dieting, without plastic surgery, just in how they feel about themselves. It's a wonderful show!

It's not just a show for overweight women either. The women highlighted just have negative perceptions about the way they look and feel about themselves. Self confidence and self esteem go deeper than the numbers on a scale. As a mother of three who is definitely not the size 6 I was when I got married at 24, I really appreciate this program. I have my own issues with my body. Carson, can you come over this weekend?

The episode I watched tonight took a young woman self conscious about her body and her appearance, helped her pick out under garments that fit right, then helped her find what styles looked best on her. She got a new hairstyle and a makeover. They then showed her picture to people on the street and had them tell what they thought of her appearance. (They actually did this before and after) The comments were very different from her own perceptions. After the transformation, the end result was a confident young woman who felt pretty.

So, watch "How to Look Good Naked." It will make you smile.

So will this: The average American woman wears a Size 14 and weighs 152 pounds. The average supermodel is thinner than 98 percent of American women.

Resolve to Be Happy

2008-01-10T11:08:00.000-05:00

So, I'm going to rat myself out again, I watched the Today Show this morning. I usually just don't have time, but it was on and I stopped and watched this bit on being "Happy for No Reason."
That doesn't make sense. Of course, there's more to the story than that.
Resolving to be happy, no matter what. Which we all know, is harder than it sounds. Or is it?

In this day and age, more people than ever take antidepressants to help them "smile." Some need them, some just need to "take the edge off." I am not going to address the whole prescription medication for depression debate. Yeah, I'm not dumb enough to go there.

However, I know that sometimes the way we feel has everything to do with how we feel about ourselves. Or how we feel about what is going on around us. The woman being interviewed said that 85% of the thoughts going through a woman's head during the day are negative. She also did a very interesting exercise with Meredith. Go watch the video and see it.

She had Meredith hold her arm out straight and resist her pushing. She did. She then had her say 3 times, "I am not good enough" and then try to resist her pushing. She could not.
Meredith tried again, but this time after saying "I am good enough" 3 times. She resisted the pushing. Wow.

A simple exercise, some might even say a little silly. But it spoke volumes for what goes on in our minds.

"Don't listen to everything people say," your mom probably told you as a kid. Well, now, I say, "Don't listen to everything YOU say."

I'm good enough, I'm smart enough and doggone it, people like me! But in all seriousness, that is now my New Years Resolution! What? I don't make those!

But I am this year. I will resolve to be happy! One of my faults is that I worry. I am awesome at worrying. I could win a gold medal in worrying. And I know that it is wrong. That's something I try to work on daily during my prayer time! But I know my God tells me I AM good enough!

So, we're living, stuff happens, move on! I'll be happy! What about you?